Comparing Notes
DebraThe LDBF is a phenomenal writer. He is capable of putting together strings of sentences that completely transport you into his story. Your breath catches, your pulse quickens, your eyes widen, as his words grab you, lift you, and move you through the worlds he creates. He has a great gift and I am so fortunate that he shares his writing with me.
It was our passion for writing and an attraction to each other's writing that brought us together. Writing was all we had in the beginning. It is our foundation, both individually and as a couple. Our writing dreams provide us a connection and head us in the same direction. It is one of our greater bonds.
There are days, many days, that I doubt my talent and I fear my dreams are just too far out of reach. I do not know that I have it, whatever it is, that intangible quality, that is the difference between a good writer and a great writer. He has it. He oozes it, is redolent of it. I do not know that I have it. I am reminded of the line a former piano teacher once told me, "Anyone can learn to play the notes but only those with talent can make music." I may just be playing the notes.
I said as much to him this weekend. When I compare my writing to his, mine falls short every time. His response was immediate and supportive. He reminded me that we have very different styles and write in different genres. He is a master of the types of stories he tells; I write in an entirely different way, in my own style. In the literary sense, I am trying to compare great jazz with a classic concerto. They can both be beautiful while being completely different.
I am my own worst critic (his remark, my admission) and I do need to keep at it (his suggestion, my acknowledgment). He provided the caring push I needed. Anything worth doing well takes time. I will continue to learn, continue to try, continue to write.
He is a phenomenal writer, yes, but I can be, too. I just need to focus on, and play, my own type of music.
Reader Comments (2)
I think you are a fantastic writer. Your words always feel so organic and real, as though each one is exactly where it should be. Nothing is forced, there is nothing to trip over. It all flows. So yes, keep at it, you have a gift.
You sell yourself short. You ARE a phenomenal writer.